Parenting Plans and Co-Parenting Communication
Creating Stability for Your Children—And Yourself
Navigating divorce is never easy, especially when children are involved. At Starting Point Divorce Advocacy, we help you build a parenting plan that prioritizes your child's well-being, while setting you up for success in your new role as a co-parent. We understand the emotional weight behind every decision, and we're here to guide you through it—step by step.
Whether you’re negotiating parenting time, decision-making authority, or daily logistics, we’ll help you approach these conversations with clarity, confidence, and a plan that works for everyone involved.
What Is a Parenting Plan?
A parenting plan is a written agreement that outlines how you and your co-parent will share time and decision-making responsibilities for your children. It’s more than just a legal document—it’s a roadmap for your family’s future.
Key elements typically include:
Parenting Time Schedule
Including holidays and vacations
Decision-Making Responsibilities
For education, healthcare, religion, and extracurriculars
Communication Guidelines
Between parents and between parent/child
Transportation and Exchange Logistics
Conflict Resolution Processes
For future disagreements
We’ll help you understand what the court expects, what’s realistic, and what options you have for customizing the plan to fit your family's needs.
Communication Is Key
(But It’s Not Always Easy)
Co-parenting after separation can be challenging. You’re navigating new boundaries, emotions, and logistics—all while trying to protect your child from conflict. That’s why effective communication is a cornerstone of any successful parenting plan.
We help you:
- Set communication boundaries and expectations with your co-parent
- Choose the right tools, whether it's a shared calendar, email, or co-parenting app
- Stay child-focused, especially when tensions rise
- Document important conversations in a clear, court-appropriate way
We’ll also review your communication history (when needed) and help you draft neutral, productive messages if you're struggling to communicate effectively.
What If You Can’t Agree?
You don’t have to agree on everything to move forward.
If parenting plan decisions are stuck, we’ll:
Identify your non-negotiables and areas where you may be able to compromise
Help you prepare for mediation or court, if necessary
Connect you with
trusted professionals (like parenting coordinators or therapists) when additional support is needed
Our goal is always to reduce conflict—without sacrificing your child’s best interests or your own well-being.
You Don’t Have to Figure This Out Alone
We know how overwhelming it can be to protect your children, navigate legal language, and advocate for your needs at the same time. That’s why we’re here. We’ll walk with you through every part of the process—from writing the plan to managing communication with your co-parent—so you can move forward with confidence.
Ready to build a parenting plan that works?
Schedule a Consultation and take your next step with clarity and support.
